So get inside his head when it comes to sex. Tell him you won’t resume play until he’s flaccid. Stop the action – Give him a short time out.Put him on a short leash – Attach a leash to his cock ring.Bind his hands – Tie or cuff his hands behind his back.A firm twist or a pinch will have him sitting up straight. Twist or pinch his nipples – Most men have sensitive nipples.Slap his cock – Use your hand or a ruler to swat the head of his cock.A firm grasp and a jerk won’t hurt him badly, but it will get his attention. Grab him by the balls – They’re not as delicate as he would have you believe.Here are a few tied, er, tried and true methods: Keeping him in line – When your man misbehaves – and he will – make sure to remind him who is in charge. Add a leash and you’ve got an obedient pet for the night. Other slide them on before lovemaking to make him rock hard. Some women require their mates to wear them at all times. With this ring – Cock rings (rubber, metal or leather) are a powerful tool. And of course, there’s the ultimate – straddling his face. Others like to take a licking while standing – either from the front or behind. Many women prefer to lie on their back with their man’s head buried in their sex. Get his tongue to work – It’s all about your pleasure. Hands off – Make sure he knows that touching himself without your permission is forbidden. So make it a regular part of your foreplay. Make him watch – Men love to see women touching themselves. And if he breaks the rule, make sure there are consequences. Insist that your pleasure always comes first. Ladies first – Train your man to be a gentleman. When he tries to reciprocate, give him the evil eye and require him to ask permission. Touch him frequently – a pat on the behind, a face-to-face grope of his package, a playful twist of his nipples. Touch, but don’t let him touch – Outside the bedroom, follow a hands-on, hands-off policy. If you like his behind, make him shave that, too. Keep him smooth – Require your man to shave his cock and balls daily. When it comes to your body, tell him he needs your permission to see you completely naked. Forbid him from wearing anything – boxers or briefs – to bed. Insist that he remain naked as he get ready for work. It heightens his sexuality and keeps him exposed. Use nudity as a tool - Keep your man naked as much as possible. Tell him what you want him to do to please you – and do it daily. Tell him what you want – Your most powerful tool is your mouth. Make sure he knows that you’re in love with who you are. Mistress Guide - Tips for getting what you wantīe confident – There’s nothing more sexy than a woman who knows what she wants.